Wow. I'm totally with you on this one -- don't have babies you can't provide for. I think this woman is completely out of line, and it was not any god that provided her with the ability to feed and clothe her family, it was a group of generous community members.

I would definitely want to send the reply you talked about, how believing that "God" will provide for kids you can't afford is silly and how having children while you are not financially stable is irresponsible and selfish. I don't know if I would be brave enough to actually send it, but I would definitely feel the urge to.